It’s normal to be on cloud nine during the early stages of the relationship, but how do you know if the guy you’re dating is in it for the long haul and isn’t just a temporary guy?
Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the telltale signs he’s in it for the long haul.
1. He’s already told you that he’s not dating anyone else.
If he hasn’t come out and directly laid it all out there already about how he wants exclusivity, then he’s probably already hinted that he’s not dating another woman. If so, it’s obvious that he doesn’t to lose you. We are saying, can you really blame him? You’re a catch.
2. He makes plans ahead of time.
You know he has a cousin’s wedding coming up 5 months from now because he’s already asked you to be his plus-one. If he wasn’t serious about you, he would just “wait and see” with these types of events, but nah – he insists that you come along with him and tells you in advance so that he can book the plane tickets for you.
3. He tries hard to impress you.
If you mean a lot to him and he sees you as his future girlfriend, then he’ll try really hard to impress you. Whether this is through a nice restaurant that he picks out for date night on Friday night or with the story where he saved his neighbor’s cat from getting hit by a car, he wants you to think he’s just as awesome as he finds you.
4. He makes everything so easy.
Because he only wants to impress you, he makes such an effort to make you happy. As a result, he’s super kind and patient with you, which makes your relationship even more special than the ones he had in the past. Long gone are the days where the dating stages are complicated because you don’t know where you stand with your boyfriend – with this guy, everything is so much more straightforward, and it’s plain sailing from day one.
5. He brings up the future.
Finally, the most clear-cut sign that he wants to be with you for the long haul. For instance, you’re only one month in and you know that he wants to have children and a dog named Max. He’s not afraid to open up about the serious stuff and isn’t running away from commitment – and you know what? It’s actually so nice to meet a guy like this.
So tell us, how serious is your guy about dating you? Is he the real deal? Or is he still playing dating games?
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