We don’t know what to tell you, it hurts. You’ve stumbled on the telltale warning signs that you’re just his side dish. With social media and the fear of missing out, people are afraid to commit themselves to someone because they think something better is just around the corner.
Now, this isn’t an excuse for a guy to be in a relationship and have side chicks, as well. They know what’s right and what’s wrong. So, let’s not give them too much sympathy here, ladies.
If you have a weird feeling about your relationship and sense that he’s not being honest with you, then you could very well be the side woman.
But let’s not jump to assumptions either. Instead, let’s look at the signs and put the puzzle pieces together.
Today, New Jersey Singles reviews the top signs you’re the side dish, not his main squeeze.
1. You never met his friends.
When a guy wants to show off someone he really likes, he first introduces her to his friends. When you meet the friends, it’s a sign that he’s really into you and wants to show you off to everyone. Typically, he likes to keep you around and wants everyone he knows to meet you. This means he sees you as relationship-worthy.
2. He doesn’t see you that much.
If you were his girlfriend, he would use his time to make sure that he sees you as much as he can. However, as a side woman, he only sees you once, maybe twice a week. He sees you but dedicates most of his time to the real girlfriend. So, if he’s not giving you his time, then you are not the main girlfriend.
3. No photos of you exist.
If you’ve been dating him for a while, it’s normal that there would be photos of you on social medial. But when you try to take a photo of him, he freaks out and tells you to not post anything of him online. Come on, you know what that means, right? He is clearly keeping you as a secret. It’s because he doesn’t want anyone to find out he’s hooking up with you.
4. You don’t go on dates.
When you’re dating, you should go on dates with your partner. Maybe you go see a movie, go grab coffee, or go out to eat. Point is, he’s taking you out to spend quality time with him. Netflix and popcorn in his bed doesn’t count as a date. If he doesn’t take you out of the house, there’s a reason why. Never overlook this one, ladies.
5. He doesn’t open up to you.
When you know you’re only going to be sleeping with someone for a short period of time, you don’t open up to them and share personal things. If you’ve tried to get him to be emotional and he shuts down, he doesn’t want to get attached to you – and for good reason… He’s already attached to someone else.
6. He sees you at the same time every day.
When he does see you, it’s usually always the same time and the same day. It’s like a routine. He has to keep it like this because he has his cheating down to an art. He has a specific excuse for that time block when he’s with you. That’s why you never see him outside of that specific time and day.
So, tell us, how many of these signs do you see with the man you’re dating? Are you just his side chick? If you notice a couple of these signs, it’s time you open your eyes and face the truth, the brutal truth that you’re just a side piece to him.
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