Men aren’t always what they appear to be. Today, New Jersey Singles, Colts Neck’s premier dating agency, will review the top complaints from single women when it comes trouble men in the dating world.
When a woman is looking for a serious and long lasting relationship, she must find a man who is like-minded and ready for a meaningful relationship, not someone who doesn’t fit the bill. In the NJ dating pool, women will surely encounter a few bad men, men that must be avoided at all costs. Today, our NJ matchmakers will review a few men to stay from if you’re looking for a happy and healthy relationship.
No women, at least no sane woman, would ever want to be in a relationship with a player, but for some reason unknown, women seem to be attracted to them. New flash, ladies, a player will never be a good candidate for a serious relationship. As the name already tells you, the only thing he’s interested in is wasting your time. Don’t be fooled by his charm, because a player will only keep you around until he’s found someone better. Players are only after the side dish, never more than that.
A Man without a Job
A man without a job is not the right man to be in a relationship with; after all, a man who does not have a job and is not interested in looking for one clearly lacks ambition. Unless he has a really good excuse, for example, the company he worked for closed down or he has been laid off, he should constantly be looking for a new job. Otherwise, you want to stay as far away as possible from this man. Being unemployed isn’t a sexy quality and he might be trying to reel you in so you can take care of paying his bills for him.
An Insecure Man
Everyone has insecurities and we work hard in order to eliminate them from our lives, correct? Our matchmakers want to forewarn you that dating a man who suffers from a lot of insecurities can be extremely consuming and exhausting for you. You have to deal with a lot of jealousy issues, insecurity problems, trust issues, and everything in between. A relationship with an insecure man will definitely leave you feeling drained.
A Basement Dwelling Man
There are a number of situations out there that will require a man to move back to his parent’s house, and there are good legitimate reasons as long as it’s temporary; however, if you come across a man who is proud to live in his parent’s basement, doesn’t pay rent, and clearly has no motivation of moving out, then you need to move on. There is nothing attractive about a proud basement dweller. Steer clear from this man at all costs.
The Man Who Thinks He’s a King
This man is a king but doesn’t really have a crown. Have you ever come across a man like this? Well, this is the type of man who expects women to treat him like royalty; he wants you to prepare his meals for him, clean the house, and do his laundry, all while he sits on the couch drinking beer and watching football. A man with expectations like this is not going to treat you right in a relationship. You deserve to be treated like a queen, not the other way around.
A Man with Too Many Children
When a man is thirty and has four children to all different women, there should immediately be a red flag going off in your head. Men with different children to different women are not worth dating; after all, chances are, he is a player. Plus, there will also be a lot of baby mama drama in this situation, and everyone knows how awkward that can be. Avoid the man with several baby mamas; trust us, you will thank us later.
A Man with a Lot of Baggage
Most often, women are the ones who are portrayed to have a lot of baggage. But the truth is, in this modern world, men have it too. Beware of men who walk around with a lot of baggage, especially relationship baggage. If he still has lingering feelings for his ex or has other problems, don’t waste your time on him. Having outright baggage will only cause problems for you later on.
A Narcissistic Man
Our Colts Neck matchmakers never recommend dating a narcissist. There is nothing worse than dating a man who is completely self-centered and who could care less about anyone else. Though a narcissistic man might look great and dress well, he only cares about himself.
A Lazy Man
This type of man will have an on and off job and he will spend the majority of his time watching TV on his sofa. This man is the type that never cooks his own meals and never cleans up after himself. In other words, he never does anything on his own, and if he does, then he only does it half-assed. He would rather stay in than go out and have fun with you. This type of man takes lazy to the extreme. Does this type of man sound appealing? Probably not.
A Man Who Is after a One Night Stand
Many women out there already know about this type of man. This type of man is the one who is only after you for a one night stand. What good is this man if you’re looking for a serious relationship? He’s not worth anything; he is just looking to get into your bedroom and get out as quickly as possible. Be careful, ladies; if he’s having a one night stand with you, he’s likely having it with many other ladies too.
The Extremely Frugal Man
There is nothing wrong with a man who is looking out for his money and wants to save whenever he can; however, there is a line that needs to be drawn. If a man only takes you out to a restaurant with a wallet full of coupons or does not let you order drinks because they’re too expensive, it’s time to reconsider. Being frugal is okay, but being extremely cheap is different. You may end up paying his way for the remainder of the relationship.
A Man Who Is Set in His Ways
This man is completely set in his ways. He will not try or do anything new or anything that strays from his usual plans. Dating a man who is set in his ways and refuses to do anything different will surely bore you to death. Dating this type of man will also make for a one-sided relationship, and our Colts Neck matchmakers know that’s not healthy and you won’t be happy.
If you’re looking to meet quality men in New Jersey, contact our matchmakers at New Jersey Singles Dating Service. We have four convenient offices across NJ. Don’t waste another day with a man who isn’t worthy of your time; give us a call today and start meeting successful, relationship-minded men today!
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